Why Does Networking Make You Cringe?

Why Does Networking Make You Cringe?


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Networking. That word alone is enough to strike fear in the hearts of many - especially introverts. Visions of crowded conferences, forced small talk, and aggressively eager extroverts thrusting business cards in your face are enough to make anyone want to hide under the covers.

But here’s the thing: networking doesn’t have to be like that. And when done right, building professional connections can pay huge dividends for any entrepreneur - no matter how awkward or introverted you may be.

At My Networking Apparel, we’re on a mission to transform networking into something organic and welcoming for all personalities through our conversation-starting apparel and accessories. Because the truth is, introverts need to network, and extroverts love to network. So we created a brand community that makes connections easier for anyone looking to grow personally and professionally.

Still doubting whether you should bother networking? Here are four key reasons it’s well worth it:

Expand Your Opportunities

Simply put: who you know expands what you can access. The people within your network act as bridges to new prospects you’d never discover on your own. A casual conversation at a Meetup could become your next business partner. A coffee chat referral could become your first major client. A conference seating mix-up could become your trusted mentor.

You have no way of predicting who will impact your entrepreneurial journey and open doors you didn’t even know existed. But by putting yourself out there - even when it feels uncomfortable as an introvert - you increase the chances of the right connections shaping your path at the right time.

Enhance Your Knowledge

Beyond access to opportunities, networking also enables valuable peer learning. Connecting with experienced entrepreneurs provides a judgement-free space to ask questions, seek advice, and learn from their expertise, mistakes to avoid, and lessons learned.

And acting as a mentor or resource yourself for those just starting out is rewarding while also solidifying your own knowledge. The perspectives and ideas you’ll gain from authentic conversations will undoubtedly spark professional growth.

Gain Accountability and Support

Achieving your biggest goals and visions as an entrepreneur is virtually impossible to do alone. You need a team behind you providing accountability, encouragement, and support during the inevitable challenges that arise. Making connections through networking builds your personal “board of advisors” to call on when you need a pep talk, fresh ideas, or even a helpful introduction.

Knowing you have a network cheering you on makes staying focused and motivated much more manageable for introverts and extroverts alike. And being able to pay that support forward fuels a sense of community and fulfillment.

Build Your Reputation

Ask any successful entrepreneur about pivotal factors in their journey, and networking will surely top the list. Surrounding yourself with recognized leaders, influencers, and innovators provides third-party validation as you build your own brand and authority. Plus, positive word-of-mouth referrals within a well-connected network are marketing gold.

But all that takes putting yourself out there consistently and authentically - even if you’re introverted or shy. Once you’ve established yourself as a thoughtful leader in your network, exciting media, speaking, partnership, and other opportunities will follow. Your network mirrors your net worth.

The Power of Conversation

While the practical reasons above are convincing enough, realizing the full value of having a network requires embracing the human element too. Forming genuine personal connections, not just business ties, is what drives community loyalty and word-of-mouth growth.

That’s why at My Networking Apparel we create clever, eye-catching apparel and accessories specifically designed to spark meaningful conversations...whether you’re introverted OR extroverted. Wearing an “Ask Me What I Do” shirt or “Awkward Networker” shirt instantly gives anyone an easy icebreaker and permission to chat you up. We want to transform “Want to network?” into “I’d love to connect!”

So if you’re on the fence about having to network, consider this your sign. Start wearing a conversation starter that reflects your personality. Extroverts will proudly own their networker status. And introverts now have an easy in without the pressure. See where each conversation leads you - from your next client to your newest friend.

When networking feels organic rather than forced, its value shines. You’ve got this!

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